Ep 307 play Stupid Games Win Stupid Prizes

Are you ok with testing your relationship? Would you do what they did?

Transcript

SPEAKER_02 1:08

I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD. It's your hostess with the most is it's Kiki.

SPEAKER_03 1:16

What the hell? I don't like the way you be doing my voice some Kiki. See, that's how I said it. Sorry, I tried to put it. What up?

SPEAKER_00 1:23

No, you know who this your boy coach a pure motivation. I am Mr. Energy. Everybody love me. I don't have one in me. Our podcast is here now, so you gotta respect it. You never get off on us because we're never the exit. If you know me, then you know that I'm more than a savage who loves living life and is allergic to average, so inconclusions, so it's no confusion. If you see somebody really nice, it's an illusion. What up, though? What's good? What's good? What's good? Welcome to another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast, where you get your daily dose of relationships and reality.

SPEAKER_03 1:55

Talk about it, okay.

SPEAKER_00 1:57

Listen, we got a lot to go over today, man. How y'all been? What's good? Talk to me. You know how was y'all week and weekend?

SPEAKER_02 2:04

We just been BFFing it up.

SPEAKER_00 2:07

Okay, what that means. Talk to the people. That means something. Y'all just BFFing it up. What that means.

SPEAKER_05 2:12

What we do, which I did.

SPEAKER_00 2:16

Oh what happened?

SPEAKER_05 2:18

This weekend. Oh like each other. What about threesome?

SPEAKER_02 2:21

What did the man say yesterday? It's okay if you kiss your friends.

SPEAKER_03 2:32

I was like, Oh no, we had a really good day. We um we got matching tattoos, yay, we did, and I told her, blood in, blood out, because baby, we forever.

SPEAKER_02 2:51

She kept saying that.

SPEAKER_03 2:52

So the tattoo guy, like forever, baby. Oh no, he said, How long have you guys been friends?

SPEAKER_02 2:59

I'm like, like 20 years, bro. Like, he was like, Oh my gosh, she was making it seem like you guys just became friends. I said, Hell no, we've been friends forever, literally. Oh my god, literally.

SPEAKER_03 3:11

Then we had like dinner, we did. We just had a holiday of like yeah, I wanted to do more, but we ran out of time. I wanted to go to the mall and get her purse, like a little wallet, like a little something.

SPEAKER_00 3:24

She wants a gun holster. Oh, yeah, shoulder strap, something like that. Oh, she on. Okay, yeah, all right.

SPEAKER_05 3:32

I mean, it could be it could still be glamour again. Yeah, she's like I don't think they made those yet.

SPEAKER_00 3:38

I want the I want the AR with the stock on it, you know what I'm saying? With the strap, we we got to start small first. Now you're going straight. I mean, you know, she's no no no no no. You know, she was starting. She was no no, she was on that side over there. You know, no, you know she was on that side over there.

SPEAKER_02 3:50

So I don't want no AR.

SPEAKER_00 3:51

Oh, I'm saying you was on that side over there. I don't want no AR.

SPEAKER_02 3:54

She needs to start. I want a like a four five or something.

SPEAKER_00 3:58

No, you don't want no four five. You just threw that out there.

SPEAKER_02 4:02

You did you like what they what they call it? I want a nickel, a nickel, a nickel five. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 4:08

No, a four nickel.

SPEAKER_02 4:10

What do they call it?

SPEAKER_03 4:11

I don't need no shoulder off with that one. All right, I don't want that waller.

SPEAKER_00 4:14

You're starting to remember, you remember, you know, the wrong the wrong type of power gonna make you that's um that's uh said you're gonna know that one. Remember how my sister did. She wanted to shoot me bust herself in the head herself right in the head.

SPEAKER_02 4:25

We was gonna jump you that day because why you let her do that? I told her not to do it, and she was pregnant, pregnant.

SPEAKER_00 4:31

She likes she must have been like a week pregnant. I don't know.

SPEAKER_02 4:33

She was pregnant with uh Jane Bane.

SPEAKER_00 4:35

I know I don't know who she was pregnant with, but I'm saying it couldn't have been that far along, though.

SPEAKER_02 4:39

No, she was because that was January. Jane Bane was born in July. So she's like four months.

SPEAKER_03 4:48

You don't really show for real. Four months.

SPEAKER_02 4:50

Oh, she wasn't big.

SPEAKER_00 4:51

She was just yeah, it had to be something because I don't I can't see me letting her do it. Yeah, that sounds like she probably maybe she ain't tell me yet. I don't know. He don't record that part, he don't recall that part. That ain't my that ain't my cup of tea right there. That's kind of crazy.

SPEAKER_02 5:04

You're like, no, that's stupid.

SPEAKER_00 5:05

Yeah, I mean, don't get me wrong, it was how many years ago?

SPEAKER_03 5:08

Yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_00 5:10

Yeah, so but that's kind of crazy.

SPEAKER_03 5:14

Yeah, but we had a good day, and then we met up with our other BFF dance husband for her, but we met him at the bar at the and we had a couple of fun, it was fun.

SPEAKER_02 5:25

We had a couple people watching yesterday.

SPEAKER_03 5:27

Oh my god, why nobody had no teeth?

SPEAKER_02 5:29

What we missed, man. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 5:30

That was a teethless day. Yeah, it was a munching day, huh?

SPEAKER_02 5:33

It was the teethless birthday. You know how they had themes like and everybody won't smile.

SPEAKER_00 5:37

That was crazy. I mean, I was like, go on, hey, flown.

SPEAKER_03 5:40

And we're having such a good time though, so I didn't mind, except the girl that kept bumping me. I'm like, girl, one more time.

SPEAKER_02 5:45

She's like, I'm sorry, and then she just she ran on the other side of her free.

SPEAKER_03 5:48

She did it like three times. I let it go, but you having a good time. We're gonna all have a good time. But three bumps was enough.

SPEAKER_00 5:54

I think I think she was bumping you because she was really trying to see what happened if the one fell off the wall. What because you know when Humkey sat on the wall, he had a great fall. She was trying to see how great the fall was.

SPEAKER_02 6:10

First of all, the one lady she got up and started dancing, she was a larger girl, but she was holding on to like BFF chair in another chair, like like she was about to like drop it to the floor. So I put my foot on BFF chair because I'm like, She's gonna flip you out this chair, and she was like, She holding on to my chair.

SPEAKER_03 6:27

I'm like, Yes, I couldn't tell because my back was turned. She was like, Oh, let me just put my two feet. I would have flipped for sure, for sure.

SPEAKER_00 6:36

That's the first time we went there and then almost get into it with somebody at like at least five visits.

SPEAKER_03 6:41

It was a good visit. It was good. It was a good everybody was just having fun, though. We got to advance a little bit, like it was nice.

SPEAKER_00 6:47

Yeah, man, my man's my man with matching from toe to head, you know what I'm saying? Not head to toe, no, no, no, from toe to head.

SPEAKER_02 6:55

He's gonna be so mad when he wakes up this morning. Hopefully, he may have already woken up and see all that red that he spilled on them brand new shoes.

SPEAKER_00 7:03

He bought them specifically for that butt, though. He said, Yep, I hope he didn't. It's a birthday party. Listen, okay, I'm gone.

SPEAKER_02 7:09

His shoe strings was done for. Oh no, he's gonna be so mad. But he was like, I'm so drunk, and he kept spilling his drinks.

SPEAKER_00 7:17

Right. He was like, I don't like I ain't gonna know how to dance. I'm drunk.

SPEAKER_02 7:21

I was on the floor, he was looking at himself in the mirror. He kept wiping his shirt. I'm like, his shirt, look at them shoes, bruh. I want them too, that's why I'm really mad.

SPEAKER_00 7:31

Yeah, I can see you with them. I can see you with them for sure.

SPEAKER_02 7:34

Mother's Day is coming.

SPEAKER_00 7:36

Let me see what size he wore.

SPEAKER_02 7:38

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I can't fit them.

SPEAKER_00 7:41

Them two big you're like with this mark on the shoestreen, they come like that. That's how they sell them. They sell them with the mark on the shoestream. No, not all that rainmark.

SPEAKER_03 7:51

I got this in my pocket.

SPEAKER_00 7:52

You stealed it.

unknown 7:54

You stole it.

SPEAKER_03 7:55

I didn't.

SPEAKER_02 7:56

She's like, I didn't.

SPEAKER_03 7:59

It's like five months. I didn't see this because you just keep it in your pocket.

SPEAKER_00 8:02

Oh, I thought that was for y'all.

SPEAKER_02 8:04

Don't say my godson ash.

SPEAKER_03 8:05

It is. I mean it's for that too.

SPEAKER_00 8:08

Just got no it is weekend and tats and all that.

SPEAKER_03 8:10

It is don't call my godson ash. That's it. No, he was ashy this morning. He got out the shower. You know, they don't like to put lotion on, they don't like to put lotion on. Then as soon as you get outside, it's just cracking because it's listen.

SPEAKER_00 8:19

Taz first game, that boy came out shining. I'm like, he came like new money. Now he put too much on everything.

SPEAKER_02 8:27

You like too much. I said, No, it looked like you just washed your face with a piece of chicken. It was so shiny.

SPEAKER_00 8:35

I said, All you gotta do is take three steps and just four. You're gonna slide past past the line. You good, but okay.

SPEAKER_03 8:41

I just want to take this opportunity to thank everybody that elected me to be in this election committee because in three years we're gonna campaign again because I love it, baby. I ain't gonna lie.

SPEAKER_00 8:52

I know she loves she loves it so bad. She loves it, love it too.

SPEAKER_03 8:55

I love it. I'm ready to campaign again because I'm staying in there, baby. We in this thing. I don't be at work, I don't, you know. It I just I be busy at the local. Now be busy. I'm a business woman now. She has the local again. I'm a business woman. Now, thank y'all so much. I appreciate it.

SPEAKER_02 9:12

We appreciate y'all number nine. We had to fight number nine. Show wins fine. We had to fight for our life. She likes uh-uh, that ain't how this works. That's how that works. Let me call if you say international. Everybody call international. They like, actually, you're right. I and I and I am. She had people sneaking messaging her on Facebook, like, hey, call this number and say this. And they was. You ain't hear this from me though.

SPEAKER_00 9:36

Yeah, no, that's that's a that's bell worthy, right there. That's bell worthy. Yeah, that was all right. Let's get into it, man. Let me ask y'all the question. Have y'all ever said something to your significant other just as a test? Like, I won't see how he responds to this.

SPEAKER_02 9:56

I don't think I have. I don't think so, because that's a dangerous game to play.

SPEAKER_03 10:00

Yeah, I kind of just say how I feel, so if it's a hypothetical situation and it goes left, not some shit that went left on some stuff we was just playing.

SPEAKER_00 10:08

No. So I I almost want to get my take before I even read it, but let me read it first. Then we don't go through it. All right. I'm still heated. My girl told me she wanted space and basically broke up with me. I was devastated. I cried. I begged. I was sick over it. Three days later. Three days. Three days later.

SPEAKER_02 10:36

She said, psyched.

SPEAKER_00 10:37

She said, I just wanted to see if you would fight for me.

SPEAKER_02 10:41

Three days?

SPEAKER_00 10:42

Three days later.

SPEAKER_02 10:43

Oh no, she went and fucked somebody else.

SPEAKER_00 10:45

I just wanted to see if you fight for me.

SPEAKER_03 10:47

She might went on the side with somebody. She had something.

SPEAKER_02 10:49

Yeah, three days. That was like a plan. Now that part over.

SPEAKER_03 10:52

Now she like it probably was her other nigga's birthday and they had to spend a couple days. That's true. That's true. I mean, come on now.

SPEAKER_00 10:58

You say she called it a test. I called it emotional terrorism. I agree. That's heavy right there.

SPEAKER_03 11:05

I'm like, ooh, that's a strong word.

SPEAKER_00 11:07

Now, now she says, my anger proved that I didn't understand, I don't understand women. I'm trying to figure it out. Our relationship tests toxic, or is this normal?

SPEAKER_02 11:20

Normal?

SPEAKER_00 11:21

Because I feel manipulated. Would y'all would y'all stay with somebody who play with your your emotions like this?

SPEAKER_03 11:29

I wonder how long they've been together.

SPEAKER_00 11:31

Yeah, they didn't give me that information.

SPEAKER_03 11:32

Because that does matter. Like, does it? I feel like it does. That's insane. I mean, that is insane.

SPEAKER_02 11:39

So you basically broke up with the nigga on Friday, then called him back Monday. Like, it's like seeing that he was crying, begging all of that, you ain't pay attention to none of that.

SPEAKER_03 11:49

I feel like something else happened too.

SPEAKER_00 11:52

Oh, what you're saying from him?

SPEAKER_03 11:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:54

Then we just talk about this.

SPEAKER_03 11:55

Because I feel like you only tell your side of the day.

SPEAKER_00 11:57

I think that was today.

SPEAKER_02 11:58

That was on our way to the game.

SPEAKER_00 11:59

That was today where we were saying, like, if a if a woman wants to leave the man, the question is, what did he do to her to make her want to leave? Absolutely. If a man want to leave, then you just you know it's always his fault, no matter what. We did just think we just said that today because we were thinking about the whole clay Thompson thing and all that, and everybody like, Well, what did he do to her to make her cheat?

SPEAKER_03 12:23

I wonder, I wonder what happened. It's got to be a back story to nobody just leave just to leave, first of all. Three days, two days, one day. Something I feel like something happened.

SPEAKER_02 12:31

But the thing is, she playing the game though, because she like, I just wanted to see if you was gonna fight for but is that is she really saying that, or is that was what's going on though? Yeah, but why would you break up with somebody on Friday and come back? I don't know what day of the week it was, but but still that means you was you you wanted to do something that weekend. I do feel like she had a plan that didn't include him. I do feel like she had a plan, and the only way to do it was for y'all to quote unquote break up.

SPEAKER_00 12:55

First of all, LeBron, damn, let's just put it out here like that. I don't feel like you're sorry. You're not you're not Jesus, okay. You know, Jesus went down and three days later he wrote, You're not about to be out here breaking up for three days just because you don't want to be looked at as a cheater or whatever it is that you want to do. You had you had an ulterior motive, you had something planned, and you fulfilled it, and now you back, and now you back, and yeah, you probably kept it three days because you wanted to make sure you liked it, it was it was it's good. Is this good enough to leave for or no? You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 13:28

I just seen people or she might have two, like BFF said, she might have two guys that she dealing with, and dog won't had a trip out of town or something. I'm telling you, I could see that. And if I just go out of town, you're gonna be calling me, texting me, whatever. But if I break up with you, which it sounded like he was still calling, texting, and begging, right? Then she came back like psych. I was just playing. I just wanted to see what she was gonna say.

SPEAKER_03 13:48

Definitely felt like she had a play.

SPEAKER_02 13:49

That's something that you do for a couple hours or something. First of all, that's some shit you do in high school, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:53

Not as adults, same thing, like I wonder how long they've been.

SPEAKER_02 13:57

That's like some 12-year-old shit.

SPEAKER_03 13:59

It sounds like some young shit for sure.

SPEAKER_02 14:01

Yeah, that's crazy though. Like, and I do agree with him. That's like I don't know, emotional terrorism just sounds heavy, harsh, but it's definitely like a form of emotional abuse, though. Yeah, yeah, like if I'm crying, begging, like, please don't leave me, I love you, especially if I don't even know what the happened and we just broke up, and you like, oh, I just wanted to see if you was gonna fight for me, huh? Yeah, not that I'm pissed because you playing, I don't understand women. He's gonna take her back.

SPEAKER_03 14:24

I don't because I feel like he's a soft nigga, though. Damn, I do. I feel like you did all that crying and begging and for something that you didn't do. Like, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 14:33

I think I feel like you're soft, so I don't I think the crying part I can understand because you don't want to lose what you got, especially not knowing why. You know what I'm saying? If you're just doing it for no reason, the begging part, I don't understand that because you can't beg. It that's just kind of crazy, baby.

SPEAKER_02 14:48

I'm begging, baby. That them days over with, and they weren't even begging, they were just saying it.

SPEAKER_00 14:54

They were just saying I'm begging suits in the desert.

SPEAKER_02 14:57

Don't mess with me.

SPEAKER_03 14:59

You better leave. I would say leave her alone. That's why I said I wonder how long they've been together. Because if it's not been that long, let that shit go. Let her let her be free and say, Yeah, I'm not playing. I know you was playing, but I'm not playing. We breaking up. No, we're breaking up. It's serious. We ain't doing no three-day breakup, it's just it.

SPEAKER_00 15:16

Can you imagine going into your job like I quit? Because you think you got another job starting Monday and come Monday, they like, you know what? We can't even do it.

SPEAKER_03 15:25

This didn't work out.

SPEAKER_00 15:26

So you just gotta go back to your old job, like you didn't say I quit, and say sorry.

SPEAKER_02 15:30

You gotta go back and forth. You know what's funny? I gotta I had a co-worker that tried that it don't work for all jobs either, though. So right, so she was in the meeting and she like, oh, I don't gotta put up with this, da da da da da, and like walked out of the meeting. So she basically quit. Quit, yeah. But when she got home and calmed down, she said, Oh, that's stupid. I'm just gonna go back to work tomorrow. Like, I ain't do nothing. She said, No, you that badge said, doo doo, you quit.

SPEAKER_03 15:52

Yeah, we put your badge off immediately. We thought you quit.

SPEAKER_02 15:55

She likes something wrong with my badge. They said, No, it's nothing wrong with your badge. Something wrong with you, you quit. And she was like, No, I was just upset. They're like, Well, we accepted your recognition and all your stuff is deactivated.

SPEAKER_00 16:06

But and that that that also says something like, and I tell KD KD this all the time. Where if you're good, if you're good, if you're great at what you do, then you just saying I quit and walking out, nine times out of ten won't be the case. Yeah, they're gonna chase you out, they're gonna be like, wait a minute, let's have a meeting. You'll be able to come back, talk about it, let's figure it out. I didn't have a job that I left, and I was like, Man, yep, I don't like going to the project for real. So what's up? Come on, I've been waiting on this call. Like, come on in, like, yeah, you know what I'm saying? I I think almost probably almost every job, with the exception of the one that actually let me go for no reason. I could always call back.

SPEAKER_02 16:51

I feel like that job let you go because you was too good. They you was too much of a threat for them. Yeah, that's how I feel.

SPEAKER_00 16:57

I feel like you was a threat to like your manager, and I should have been a pushing stone because I'm like, I'm we in it together, you know what I'm saying? We're fighting this whole thing together. But yeah, I always say if you're good enough, they'll figure it out.

SPEAKER_05 17:10

Hell yeah, I agree with that, and that's even in relationships, right?

SPEAKER_00 17:14

If you're good, if you're great in this relationship and you make some errors, it gives you a little more margin for the error, you know what I'm saying? As opposed to if you're not good. So in this case, she's playing in his face, playing with his emotion. Yep, but she must be if he takes her back, she's good in in some kind of way, or he feels like he's not as good. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 17:39

Yeah, I'm gonna say he feels like she likes the the creepy. Yeah, yeah. Like I ain't gonna find nobody better than you, so I'm gonna hold on to you. But the dangerous part of that is that you allow yourself to be treated like crap, yep, because you think that's the best you can get, when in actuality it's probably the worst you can ever do.

SPEAKER_03 17:54

Yeah, and once you once you do that once, like that's gonna lead to her doing it again or doing something else. You know what I'm saying? So yeah, you set yourself up for that because now she's not gonna stop doing it.

SPEAKER_00 18:06

She knows you just gotta discounted relationship, you know what I'm saying? Like, you ever went to a restaurant or something, and they and they give you they have a special on like a steak or something, or some kind of seafood boil or whatever, right? If you once you pay the 40 or 50 or 60, whatever the price is, yeah, and the real price is 180, you're never going to feel comfortable paying 180 for something you just paid 60 for. That's right. So once you do it, you gotta be ready for this to be the exact price of what it is, right?

SPEAKER_02 18:44

That's like us with the wombar, right? We went on a Thursday, is one thing, you go on a Friday is something else. We like, oh, we never going back on a Friday, even though we love it there, right?

SPEAKER_00 18:54

Let's less people watching though, for sure. That's just like six people, but on which day on any day, on any day, like it's it's literally it they opened it just for us on them days. That's why, uh bro, what is wrong with you? Yeah, but the one thing that I think the danger zone that he's falling into is you eventually are going to be emotionally unconnected or disconnected, I should say. Yeah, right, to the point where even if y'all do break up in the future, you'll never be connected to the next person as strong as you could or should be. Because you're gonna always revert back to this is how women treat you. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? And you can get to the point where you feel like this is how it's supposed to be. So if you do anything out of this scope, when I get to my next relationship, we got a problem.

SPEAKER_02 19:49

That's not just with men, that's with women too. Like, I think women sell themselves short a lot because of relationship, like things that happen in their relationship, because they start feeling like this is what I deserve. That's why if you notice, like not all women, but some women get in abusive relationships, and every relationship they have after that is abusive in some way because they feel like this is what I deserve. You know what I'm saying? Like maybe one man was like financially abusing, abusive. Then you go to a guy who's physically abusive, then you go to a guy who emotionally and physically abusive, because then what you tell yourself was at least he not doing that. That's true, or at least he's not doing that. So you're feeling like you upgraded, yeah, but in all actuality, you're stuck in the same vicious cycle of abuse.

SPEAKER_01 20:36

You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 20:36

Because abuse is abuse, abuse is not always somebody smacking you. Abuse can sometimes be somebody talking down on you, putting a fear in you, like these are all forms of abuse. But they say, like, well, such and such had choked me until I was unconscious. He only smacked me, so I'm doing better. Oh, yeah, you know what I'm saying? Or like he never bought me nothing, but now he buys me everything, but he called me out my name and disrespect me in front of people. But I'm doing better than I was doing with him, so you still caught in a cycle, yeah, because you think that's all you deserve. You mess around against somebody that don't do none of that, that take care of you, treat you good. Now you like he don't got good sex, though.

SPEAKER_03 21:14

What's wrong with you?

SPEAKER_02 21:16

But even if he do, they still be looking at him like, what's wrong with you? You must be gay, yeah. Something you know what I'm saying? You are lame, yeah. So all you do is buy me flowers, treat me right, take me to dinner, make sure I'm used to that. Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 21:28

My dessert is, I definitely you know what he must be gay, and that's I see that happen too with people who misuse or misunderstand the word protection. You know what I'm saying? To where if I don't go out and smack somebody up or do something violent out, you're not really protecting me. Wow, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, and I'm like, that's not the definition of that. Like but you you actually starting something now because you're going out looking for it for it, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So, like anything, any it could have really been a mistake, like if I That type, right? We just said the girl was trying to knock Humpty off the wall. Had I been that type, now I'm gonna shake her up for no reason, yeah, and mess up the whole night, and the the conversation today is totally different. Yeah, well, actually, it wouldn't be different, it'll been because you'd have been like, My man protected me last night because you know what I'm saying, this happened that where all in all, if we could have really just had a little piece of a conversation and you know, everything was good to go, yeah, yeah. So, yeah, sometimes people misuse words too in a way where you know you try to make it fit what you got going on to make you not feel as bad. Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, yeah, that's kind of crazy, man. What so y'all say leave?

SPEAKER_02 22:41

Well, we don't tell people to leave or something. However, she is on some bullshit.

SPEAKER_03 22:46

I think he's gonna stay anyway, though.

SPEAKER_02 22:48

Honestly, so I mean, because you crying begging and writing into the show, you staying, but she on some bullshit.

SPEAKER_00 22:57

Do you think he wanna know?

SPEAKER_02 22:59

Probably not, because then he really gonna be crying. He's gonna be devastated when he find out what she was doing that weekend. Do you think off the show? I wouldn't even want to damn okay. Sounds like a good time and the balcony. Oh if Davis in Miami and on the beach, yeah, a time was had, baby.

SPEAKER_00 23:19

Well, yeah, or Puerto Rico.

SPEAKER_03 23:23

He gotta evaluate we can say it. Is it worth it? You gotta worry about it, he gotta think about it.

SPEAKER_02 23:30

And then do do or whoever, I might not even have been the guy, though. You know, we can give somebody else that weekend was fun, but maybe he the provider, the cry, the cry and text guy. Maybe he the provider, yeah. Yeah, so I can't leave you. Yeah, because how's I'm gonna keep getting these bags and purses and bills paid and all these things. So I gotta keep you, yeah. But when I want to have fun, on the side, I'm gonna go on over here, and we're gonna have a time, and then I'll be back. I'll be back on Tuesday. Monday, I probably need some gotta sleep because I done had fun Friday, Saturday, Sunday. I had enough. Monday, I gotta rest. I'll be back Tuesday, rail rested.

SPEAKER_00 24:09

I mean, I I used to have a homie like this that he had two different lives. That was crazy, and to be able to comfortably and he used to always try to add to the life. I'm like, bro, you got two different lives, you can't add to these lives, like so. He had a life in in Canada and he had a life over here in America, but it was literally like right across the border, not too far, right? But he knew that because the life was in Canada, Canada wasn't really coming to America. Now, America was on she might go to Canada if she knew where to go, right? But he would create a situation in America so that you're not even looking forward to me for a few days so I can go to Canada. Then I create a situation in Canada, which it didn't have to be a uh a bad one because Canada knew that he lived in America, so you know I might not be able to call you because I'm working, whatever you don't really know the real deal. So the biggest lies had to come to America because I just need to go over here and spend some time with it. Now, that's what in America he had a family, yeah. Kids, yeah. Well, a kid, a kid.

SPEAKER_02 25:24

Oh, yeah, he only got one.

SPEAKER_00 25:25

They were together, yeah. They were together for a minute. Uh they probably still together. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 25:29

That's crazy. How long did that last?

SPEAKER_00 25:31

With all that I know of both that I know of at least five years.

SPEAKER_03 25:34

Oh at least five years. That's a long time. And that's adding more people to the yeah, he was more sauce.

SPEAKER_00 25:41

To the to the to the meat. That is a lot and it was like he was adding like spicy sauce too, right? So I remember he was adding sauce that KD actually knew. Oh no, and him and I was out one day. Don't do that. I said, Uh uh, don't do that. I said that with a shirt on, and it said, Don't do that. He was not paying that shirt no attention.

SPEAKER_02 26:00

Dog walked in with her. We we was at an event for their job. Soon as he walked in the door, I said, What the so I hugged because I know her, like I know her no way, yeah, yeah. And then afterwards, I said, Hey, that ain't what you want, my guy.

SPEAKER_03 26:13

Oh my goodness, he like, no.

SPEAKER_02 26:15

I'm like, listen, I know her, know her. Yeah, that ain't what you want. Not and only because I know you and I know the bullshit that you do, that ain't what you want. It ain't gonna end well, and it didn't, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 26:25

So listen, she was she was one of them ones. Him and I was going out one day, we downtown, and they went out the night before. So when I get in the car, we ride and we chilling, and everything just kind of revealed itself because I was asking, you know, how y'all how was it? You know what I'm saying? I keep telling you, don't do it, but you did it. So now, right? Right? So he makes a hard stop and then uh a smash down on the gas to go or whatever, and something rose from up under the seat. Oh Lord, like up under up under the seat, it was a whole bag. Oh we pull it out, open it up, it got all kind of stuff in this bag, right? To let whoever else get in this vehicle know I was here. What? So now he sees that, and I'm like, I tried to tell you. So then that would have been we was we was out, and within a matter of maybe 30 minutes, I'd say, she had called his phone and my phone and and the bar. I was at work, yeah. Back to back. At least I think I had at least almost 150 calls on mine personally, and she was going back to back.

SPEAKER_02 27:38

Right, right, right.

SPEAKER_00 27:38

So I don't even know how she was going in the tri-circle.

SPEAKER_02 27:41

She said, Can you call him and tell him to call me? I said, No, and why'd you call? How did you get his phone number?

SPEAKER_00 27:45

That was the question.

SPEAKER_02 27:45

She said, Oh, I got all their phone numbers. I'm like, What? She said, Yeah, I got all his homeboys' phone numbers. I said, Why? She likes he gave it to me. I said, No, no, no. I know him, he didn't give me all the phone numbers. So, but yeah, she was she was like, I'm just gonna come up there and stay with you. I said, No, I can't have no company, I'm at work.

SPEAKER_00 28:03

Yeah, I'm talking about she was going in. But we sit at some point. Oh my god, we in the car in front of the club, and we just looking at each other's phone like this.

SPEAKER_03 28:13

We're like, she calling back to back to back to back.

SPEAKER_00 28:16

I'm like, I don't even know how she's doing this. This was like early on cell phones, too. So it was like, you know what?

SPEAKER_02 28:21

I know she called me from the house phone. Okay, so that's so she might have been calling like one of y'all from the house phone, cell phone because she called me from the house phone, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:31

Yeah, so it was it was crazy. He was like, Man, so then I tried to warn you and he tried to go and and kick it with her that that same night and give her her bag and say I found that. I said, bro, abort mission, abort, abort mission. Please, I'm trying to save you in this thing, man. Abort mission.

SPEAKER_02 28:49

I'm like, she done lay in the bushes and jump out at you and your girl, type of chick. Yeah, swear, she always been nutty since we was kids. She was so it probably got a lot worse because she had a lot of practice. I follow her today on social media and she ain't calmed down at all. Oh my god, at all. She's still like a nut busting out windows, flattening tires, messing with that. Listen, she grown. Like, I'm pretty sure we the same age. She might be a little, she might be like a year older than me or a year younger than me. But she got grown kids, grandkids, the whole nine.

SPEAKER_03 29:19

She don't even care.

SPEAKER_02 29:20

What? Oh my god, she don't even hold that baby in one arm and bust your window out with the other one.

SPEAKER_00 29:26

And that's a fact.

SPEAKER_02 29:29

Maybe I'm like, damn, you still crazy. Uh uh.

SPEAKER_00 29:32

She said she said, crazy don't change. It ain't no expiration on crazy.

SPEAKER_02 29:34

She's like, No, people be playing in my face, like they need to stay out your face. That's just yeah, far. Me and women. She was just married to a woman who she likes, yeah. I don't even know where she's at, huh?

unknown 29:45

What?

SPEAKER_02 29:46

Oh, yeah, she's running from you now. She's running like anytime you bust the windows out your own house where you live too. Nah, you a different kind of crazy, bro.

SPEAKER_00 29:56

James Price, crazy out. I'm out. That James Price said, huh? I don't like what I'm saying. I'm out. Out. I'm going to get some milk. I'm going to get some. I'm going to work and I'm going to leave my van at what coming back. Never coming back. Never coming back.

SPEAKER_02 30:08

I know to this day. How long has it been? Like 40 years?

SPEAKER_00 30:11

Probably, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 30:13

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 30:14

Probably about I would say maybe not 40. It was probably 35 years.

SPEAKER_05 30:18

Okay. Close to. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 30:21

But this was back. I'm telling you, when he for you to stage this, like, okay, I'm gonna go to work, I'm gonna leave my van. So whoever get it, get it, but I'm gonna leave the doors open and all that.

SPEAKER_02 30:29

Because you're making it seem like you got kidnapped, yeah. And then he put blood in the car or something. Yeah, I think mama told me that was blood. But now we think you did. We think, but you know what? Because it was so long ago, now in hindsight, because wasn't he the butcher or something? Yeah, so they don't know if it was human blood or animal blood. But just looking at it, you would yeah, because you gotta think about it. This however many years ago wasn't no like forensic scientists and shit like that, it was just blood, so it could have been blood, yeah, yeah, yeah. Out the the the butcher area, the butcher area, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, but still, to even think I'm about to put some blood smart though. No, why not just say I don't like it?

SPEAKER_03 31:05

I don't want to be here, I'm out because don't look for me.

SPEAKER_00 31:07

Good home with your no, no, right.

SPEAKER_03 31:10

So you could just say I don't want to be here.

SPEAKER_00 31:12

He was the quote unquote steppop to her.

SPEAKER_03 31:15

I don't want to be here though.

SPEAKER_00 31:16

That was I is here her kid and her sister was the main reason that he didn't want to be there was because they was always there, and he was like, I never get a moment with you.

SPEAKER_02 31:27

But you know what's crazy is was like that until your aunt died, like they was like this two people living together, never lived apart the whole time I've been around. The only how they till death do them part literally, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 31:40

And they so they did used to live apart, but they at some point realized it's smarter for us to study. I'm always over here with you always over, you know what I'm saying? So we just live.

SPEAKER_02 31:50

But even when they lived apart, they live right across the because they lived in an apartment.

SPEAKER_00 31:54

I'm talking about so at Punch. So my one aunt stayed on the street called Kilborne, and then the other, her sister stayed on in Jefferson on Jefferson. Oh, so it was a nice little distance, and it and the one aunt that stayed on Jefferson didn't never drove ever. Oh, okay, okay. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So she would catch the bus over, and which was the main reason why she wasn't trying to leave because she was like, No, I'm here.

SPEAKER_02 32:18

Yeah, right. I want to catch the bus back. And you don't feel like dropping me off, so I might as well spend the night.

SPEAKER_00 32:23

And she really she really drove too because her son. And he was always out in in in some dirt, you know what I'm saying? Or so they was like, it's easier if we just you know, Jane's already left me, so I might as well move. And then I think she lost the house over there because she was she owned the house at some point, you know what I mean? She lost the house, and that's when it was easier for her to go there and move in, yeah. And from there to move into a one bedroom, and neither one of y'all sleep in the bed. That's just kind of wild. That's just kind of wild. That's just kind of wild. I had a chair.

SPEAKER_02 32:58

I'm gonna sleep in this chair, recliner chair and the couch, yeah. No way. We right here in front of the TV. We besties for the resties, yeah, it's over with, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 33:08

And whatever you say, I agree with, whatever I say, you agree with, and anybody on the outside, they just gotta deal with it. That's how it is, and that's how it's gonna be. Then I can guarantee you now. No, I can't even guarantee you that because she got Alzheimer's now, so she probably only remembered that she should be pissed that she's solo now. But you know, she's solo, and well, you got other siblings, but y'all don't y'all don't get along like that because you know you didn't build that relationship with that.

SPEAKER_02 33:38

Well, it's only them two left though, right?

SPEAKER_00 33:40

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's just them two left, but that's it.

SPEAKER_02 33:47

That's crazy, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 33:50

Man, so uh damn. So let me see something. Let me see what we have. Yeah, that's kind of heavy. Y'all wanna go? Y'all wanna run through one more? Is you ready for the next round? No? All right, we're gonna go through another one. Here we go. Let's say, what's good, uh RP? Family? I need help because I feel like I'm losing my relationship slowly. About two years ago. About two years ago, my partner cheated. It broke me. But I decided to stay and work it out. They've been doing everything right since then. More attention, more present, even going to counseling with me. The problem is I can't forget it. I don't bring it up all the time, but it lives in me. Every late night, every phone notification, every I'll be right back, it triggers something in me. I forgave them, but I don't trust them the same.

SPEAKER_03 35:11

I don't know if you forgave.

SPEAKER_00 35:13

And now they started saying I'm punishing them for something they already fixed. Am I wrong for still feeling this way, or are they wrong for expecting me to just move on like it never happened? Help me out. Well, they say at this point, does forgiveness become fake?

SPEAKER_02 35:40

For them, yes. You never forgave though. Yeah, the word for that person, yes, you never forgave. For those of us who have healed and moved on, no. Um, I nobody could tell you wrong, nobody can tell you that you're wrong for how you feel. Them your feelings, right? And you the only person responsible for your feelings are you, however, I do feel like you're moving around this poorly, right? Because you have not forgiven that person. Because if you did, you would be straight. Yep. Because, and I'm speaking from a place of no, not a place of assume.

SPEAKER_00 36:12

Yeah, right, because I've I've forgiven that's why I picked it because I felt like it was some good experience.

SPEAKER_02 36:18

Uh yeah, because I've forgiven that phone could ring 120 times, I'm never touching it, and not because I'm scared of what's on there, yeah, because I don't have a desire, because I trust that whatever whoever needs to talk to you is important, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, like I don't I don't even touch your phone no more. So, and hell, the other day you was at work till 11 o'clock at night. I don't not think you were at work, right? You know what I'm saying? Now there was a time almost quick. There was a time I'd have been like, Yep, nah, nigga, you got a bitch that live in clay, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 36:48

Like, oh, oh, so oh, so you and Clay and Meg just got rid of clay. Oh and that's where we on. I'll go ahead.

SPEAKER_02 36:55

I don't know if I'd have correlated that way, but that's a good one. That's a good one. That's a good one that was a good one. Clay cheated, now you cheat in clay. Okay, okay. Well, yeah, but that's where I would have gone, right? Yeah, because sharing your location don't matter because you you creep before with me having your location. So y'all play all day, but because I've forgiven the things that has happened, yeah. You was at work, you was at work, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, it's like a blind trust. It's like, yeah, I trust you, but that's it and now now I didn't get there overnight. No, no, no, at all. Okay, but I know what it looked like on the other side. You're not on the other side of this yet, and all the counseling all you gotta figure out inside of you why you're not forgiving, and then you gotta forgive yourself for the parts of you that accepted that, and you gotta forgive yourself for the parts of you that are still angry. Yeah, it's not just all about forgiving the other person, you gotta forgive yourself in that too.

SPEAKER_05 37:52

Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_02 37:52

So you gotta you just got more work to do, and ain't nothing wrong with it, but you can't continue to bash and batter and make the person feel less than because you haven't gotten over it yet.

SPEAKER_03 38:02

I wonder if she's doing or are they doing couples counseling or if it's just for herself?

SPEAKER_00 38:07

No, she said that he's going to counseling with us.

SPEAKER_03 38:09

That's what I'm saying. Because sometimes you need it for yourself, though, right? Yeah, I had to learn that because like couples counseling is good for couples, but if you're trying to get over some shit internally, it's you, right? Like you trying to get over it, right? So you gotta talk to the person one-on-one without the the without the spouse. Yeah, because now it's shit with me, right? I'm trying to forgive, it's my shit that I'm if I'm gonna be in the relationship, I gotta learn to you're not gonna forget it, right? Right, but you gotta forgive it. You can't bring it up every damn week.

SPEAKER_00 38:37

Like you know what I but you know what?

SPEAKER_03 38:40

One thing for me, it's like I'm not gonna tell that person, but I'm gonna tell my friends, right? Right, because if I tell y'all shit all this time to fuck. If I gotta get it out, I'm not gonna tell him, you know, I'm not gonna beat you with it, but I'm gonna tell my friends, like this nigga, I still can't, this is stupid, right? No, no, no, get it out. What would it be like? Get it out, get it out. I'm gonna get it out, but I don't want to keep beating a horse with that person because I don't want it to interfere with our relationship, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 39:03

And that will interfere with it, like yeah, because if I'm trying my best to be better, but you keep berating me and beating me to what I used to be, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like, damn, I can't even I can't do it, I can't do shit right. I'm trying to do everything right, and nothing is right. Man, this fuck you, and that yeah, definitely.

SPEAKER_00 39:21

I I say the easiest thing to do is to say I forgive you. Yeah, the hardest thing to do is to actually forgive you, it's to actually because there's work involved in that, and when you say it, it does make you feel like okay, I've I've grown, I'm yeah, I'm next, I'm next level with it, etc. Right? But you know that you for one, you got too many triggers that let you know you're nowhere near over this, yeah. Over what happened, you're nowhere near over.

SPEAKER_03 39:54

She might be fresh in it, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 39:56

So yeah, because it said about two years ago. See, that's still so it's still fresh because you you you 30 years, you know what I'm saying? Right, but how long were they in that relationship?

SPEAKER_03 40:07

The last situation it's only a three-year relationship, and it's you it's two only two years back. Oh, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 40:12

Yeah, and the the last situation we were just talking about, my man was was broke down for three days. That was a long time, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So time is different now than it was two years ago, you it happened, and yeah, that's still fresh for me, too, though. And you're able to trick yourself by saying I forgive you, yeah, until you actually force it. And then it's like fighting, right? You can work out all you want for a fight, yeah. But it only matters when you actually get into this fight, what you do. That's true, you know what I'm saying? So everything that you learn, now you got to put it to work. But if you pretending that you're good, then you'll you'll never know how to put what you learned to work because you're not even learning nothing. You just say, Oh, I forgave you, I'm good. Yeah, knowing that you're not. It's too many triggers in there. Yeah, it's it's no way that you can say, I forgive you, and I've worked on it, and you still have all of these triggers. That's true. Now, I can understand it's been a while for KD and I, but she can still have a trigger here and there, of course. But it should not be everything. That means neither one, either you're not trying to work on it, he's not trying, or y'all just trying to pretend like it never happened.

SPEAKER_03 41:17

And that's the worst thing to do, is trying to sweep it under the rug. Like all the feelings are still raw and and they're still present. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 41:24

But she did say, is he wrong for acting like it never happened? Kind of. You can't do that, you can't act like it never happened, but you also can't act like it's happening today.

SPEAKER_03 41:33

You can't bring it up every week, every day, every hour. No, and then it's like so.

SPEAKER_02 41:37

Two years ago, that happened. Was that the first situation? Was that the fifth situation? Was that the ninth situation? So because that matters too, because it's harder, each time it's harder to get over it because you like, yeah, as soon as I think everything good, it's gonna happen again.

SPEAKER_00 41:50

Yeah, now I believe now. I don't have any any facts in it, but I believe this is a same-sex relationship based off of how they wrote it when they kept saying my partner, my partner didn't. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I believe this is a same-sex relationship, and I don't want to put too much stock on are they wrong for expecting me to just move on like it never happened? Because that may not have been something that was said, right? That's just what you're taking as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's true.

SPEAKER_02 42:21

So that's because I don't see somebody saying it. I mean, I guess they could. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 42:25

That part would be like, oh no, you know what I mean. So yeah, too many, uh, you gotta you gotta really work on yourself to figure out what you need to get over this. Yep, you know what I'm saying? You can't just say, okay, I'm gonna get over it. What does that mean?

SPEAKER_03 42:40

I say go to therapy for sure. Yeah, definitely go to therapy. You gotta do it like just with yourself though, not with somebody else.

SPEAKER_02 42:47

I do think that she has to do, he or she has to do some self-healing because you have to, like I said, you just like when you had to figure out why you was doing what you was doing inside of you, right? They have to figure out why they're why they are forgiven inside of them. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? And that's that's the hard part. No, that's not because then when you reflect, you like, damn, I really put up with all this because I thought I deserved it for whatever reason, you know what I'm saying? And that takes some forgiveness too. It's like forgiving the little girl inside of you or the little boy inside of you for for things they experienced that they couldn't protect themselves from, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, because now as an adult, you're not protecting yourself from things that you should be able to. That causes up for some forgiveness, yep.

SPEAKER_00 43:29

Yeah, and on the flip side of what KD just said is like sometimes the person who's who committed the act, right? Somewhere deep down without admitting it, you could be saying, That's what this person deserved anyway. Oh, they don't deserve a better version of me after what they did, you know, X, Y, and Z. Yeah, which means that there's no way for any of this to be fixed because I just pushed it on you, you pushed it on me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now we just here.

SPEAKER_03 43:57

No accountability, we're gonna enjoy it.

SPEAKER_00 44:00

The moments that we can enjoy, but other than that, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_02 44:04

Oh, that's dangerous. Yeah, that is a dangerous place to be in because you're gonna keep doing shit. I'm gonna keep putting up with shit until until the tables turn, right? Now I'm gonna be doing shit, and now you're gonna be feeling like you deserve shit for the shit that you did to me that I'm now doing to you. And I and it still just become fucked up. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 44:21

Yeah, I don't feel like that anywhere.

SPEAKER_00 44:23

And I don't know if this if it works for everybody, yeah. But for me, it always helped me to be around people who who great in that area. So if I look at if I know you're good in your relationship, you know what I'm saying? I love to be around that type of person so I can just see like, okay, this is okay, I can do this better, I can do that better, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, and it might not work for everybody, but it worked for me.

SPEAKER_02 44:48

Yeah, you know, but I agree with that though, because it's like if you're trying to get over or stop being unfaithful, you probably don't need to hang out with a bunch of playboys.

SPEAKER_05 44:57

Right, right.

SPEAKER_02 44:58

You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 44:59

Single people, period.

SPEAKER_02 45:00

Yeah, or single people, because single people that require or don't have to fuck with nobody. Okay. So it's just like if I'm if I'm got a problem drinking, I probably shouldn't hang out at the bar. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_03 45:11

Or even mess with friends that's drinking like that. Right. You know what I'm saying? Or people that's drinking like that. You want to go with a different circle, with a different thing.

SPEAKER_02 45:18

Because you can't. What they say you can't heal in the environment.

SPEAKER_00 45:23

Yeah, you can't. But a lot of that comes from you being honest with yourself, right? That part, yeah. That part when I when I had the the biggest issue in my life with dealing with women, I was lying to myself. I'm good, and I'm in the worst spot to be in. Yeah. The titty bar. Yeah. So I'm I'm in the spot where they're well everything is at where all the women are at. Yeah, it's okay. Like it's just what everybody does. Yeah, you know, I'm hating with people because I'm lying to myself. So I gotta tell myself I have to do that. Take that accountability on your on your own self at that point.

SPEAKER_03 45:50

Yep.

SPEAKER_02 45:50

And too, while she's healing, she gotta be careful which home girls that she kicked. Oh, that's worse. Because when you and that's something else I experienced when I was trying to heal and forgive DTM, I had a homegirl, God bless the dead, who oh, you forget. What about when he did like motherfuckers get to remind you of shit that you forgot about?

SPEAKER_03 46:11

That's not good friends. Stop. It's not good friends, though.

SPEAKER_02 46:14

Like, damn, I forgot he did it.

SPEAKER_03 46:16

It's an experience you gotta learn from. Like, I I learned from you. Like, I'm one of those people that learn from other people, right? So when you when y'all tell me your experiences, I look for that in people and friendships and whatever. Like, I red flags, yeah. No, thank you.

SPEAKER_02 46:29

When you're trying to hear, you gotta be careful the people that's reminding you.

SPEAKER_00 46:32

That's my favorite part of pot, man, is because we are hot, you know what I'm saying? So being hot on the show, which humble, open, and transparent. Talk about it. So being hot on the show actually not only help people, other people who are listening, but it also helps us, right?

SPEAKER_05 46:47

Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 46:50

If you, you know what I'm saying, tune in on Friday. That that's me being selfish right there. Because I'm I'm asking all the questions so that I can learn how to get better. You feel like I'm being interviewed, like, where the fucking minute interview because I was a goddamn minute. I want to know how I can be better. That's true, though.

SPEAKER_03 47:05

I mean, how would you know how to get better unless you asked, right?

SPEAKER_00 47:08

And I feel like a lot of the questions that I have, other people have, they just don't ask them, they just forget like it's that, you know.

SPEAKER_02 47:14

No, for real, because they might listen to the episode and be like, babe, let's let's come on listen to this episode, play like they never heard it. Yeah, so then when the questions come up, like what you think? What? What you think?

SPEAKER_03 47:23

I used to do that.

SPEAKER_00 47:24

No, we don't we in the three serious, we in the three hundreds of episodes, right? But when we first started, I used to some of them questions were for me. I used to just say, Gary, I want to know what's going on. What y'all think? All right, you know what I'm saying? So I got questions. I want to know. Now the family out there, they they kicking it with us and they're telling us what they need to know. They asked them questions. We got y'all.

SPEAKER_03 47:44

That's some good shit.

SPEAKER_00 47:45

Man, they definitely listen.

SPEAKER_03 47:47

Because we listen and we communicate and we take their advice, and we it's not just about listening, though.

SPEAKER_00 47:54

We whenever I hear somebody whenever I hear somebody say because we listen, I always feel like they're gonna say, and don't just listen and don't I judge not talk about it. I think everybody, everybody do, everybody do, they just lie. Everybody does. Anybody who say they don't judge, they lie.

SPEAKER_03 48:12

Damn. First of all, that sounds like that was all in in one word. It wasn't even no sentence. You said it so fast.

SPEAKER_02 48:18

Everybody who listened, don't do it, they lie. Yeah, it's a fact.

SPEAKER_00 48:21

It's a fact, it's a fact.

SPEAKER_02 48:22

Well, DTM.

SPEAKER_03 48:24

I mean, I do judge. Y'all do too. Don't be making me feel bad because y'all like, whoa.

SPEAKER_02 48:28

No, we was judging last night, nobody had no teeth. Nobody, how we the only people in the whole bar with teeth, us and the DJ.

SPEAKER_00 48:34

Made me feel good.

SPEAKER_02 48:35

No teeth.

SPEAKER_00 48:36

Made me feel good.

SPEAKER_02 48:37

Your teeth.

SPEAKER_00 48:38

I said, Oh, I ain't gotta share no no steak. They was in that boy. No teeth. It was everybody was packed, everybody was tag man.

SPEAKER_02 48:46

Everybody was tag man, everybody was packed man. Wait, you heard Blaze?

SPEAKER_00 48:50

What'd you say?

SPEAKER_02 48:50

Y'all was at the pink bar.

SPEAKER_00 48:51

Yeah, everybody was uh that's why I want nobody buying no food.

SPEAKER_02 48:57

Yeah, they ain't had no teeth.

SPEAKER_00 48:58

No, she was selling soup.

SPEAKER_02 48:59

She was no, she was she was selling soup. We're not gonna do that, right? We're not gonna do that. But sis was on 12. I we looked over there like ain't no way we ordered no food from her.

SPEAKER_03 49:09

She was drink after drink after drink. She's like, Give me two more. I said two cooking the food. Oh, okay. She said, Give me two more.

SPEAKER_00 49:16

Smoking it, smoking and anything. It was crazy. So all right, yeah. I'll talk to her. Tell her crazy Kiki.

SPEAKER_03 49:23

Do you love me? Are you riding? That's the only part I know.

SPEAKER_00 49:27

All right, the rest of it's gonna be right there.

SPEAKER_03 49:29

You can find us on my favorite platform, YouTube or iHeartRadio. If y'all got Apple Podcasts, I guess, or wherever you get your podcast.

SPEAKER_02 49:40

She is a hater. You can follow me at your girl.kd. You can follow coach dtm at coach dtm. You can follow kiki at rrp.kiki, you can follow the podcast page rrp network.

SPEAKER_00 49:52

And if you didn't download Buzz Sprout, download that, look us up on Buzz Sprout so you can download it straight to your phone, listen to it. We just need because right now South Africa is killing y'all over here in America. They loving us over there. So Buzz Sprout.

SPEAKER_02 50:07

I didn't even know about that. Which is that one? That's the new one.

SPEAKER_00 50:09

Yeah, that's the uh we don't buzz flash at a poppy. Okay, yeah, so that's uh that's the main deal. Check it out. See if you like it over there.

SPEAKER_02 50:17

And today's Wednesday, right? So if you haven't, on Monday, we just dropped a new podcast. Cocktails and girl talk.

SPEAKER_00 50:25

This one down the line, but yeah, on Monday, a podcast did I still go to Monday.

SPEAKER_02 50:32

On Monday, make sure you listen to cocktails and girl talk, and on Fridays, make sure you listen to Mary's material.

SPEAKER_00 50:38

All right, and then the message for today is simple, man. If you still feel it every day, you didn't heal, you just stayed.

SPEAKER_03 50:44

Oh, say that again. No, say that again.

SPEAKER_00 50:46

If you still feel it every day, you didn't heal, you just stayed. Oh, with that being said, I am the one and only coach DTM, your girl KD, your hostess with the most is Kiki. And this has been another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast. So long, bye-bye.

SPEAKER_04 51:03

So long bye bye. Goodbye to my pain. So long, I think.