The DEATH of KD - part 2 S2EP8

 In Sickness and In Health Pt. 2 — Brought Back to Life  “In sickness and in health” isn’t just a vow… it’s a reality check when life stops—and somehow starts again.  In Part 2 of this unforgettable conversation, KD and Coach DTM open up about the moment their relationship was changed forever… when KD clinically died and had to be brought back by doctors using crash carts.  This isn’t just a story—it’s a moment that shifted everything.  Coach DTM shares what it felt like to face the unthinkable in real time… watching the love of his life slip away, with nothing left but fear, faith, and hope. KD speaks on what it’s like to come back—to breathe again, to see life differently, and to realize how precious every moment truly is.  They dive into:         •        The emotional impact of experiencing life-and-death in your relationship         •        How that moment redefined love, patience, and priorities         •        What changes when you realize tomorrow isn’t promised         •        How surviving something like this can create a bond that’s unbreakable  Because after a moment like this… you don’t argue the same. You don’t love the same. You don’t take each other for granted… ever again.  This episode is raw. It’s real. It’s a testimony of love, survival, and purpose.    “You said ‘in sickness and in health’… but what happens when life actually leaves—and comes back? That’s when love stops being a promise… and becomes a purpose. This is Marriage Material.”

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:11

I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say. It's your girl, KD.

SPEAKER_00 0:16

What up, though? You know who it is. Your boy Coach D T M AKA Pure Motivation. I am Mr. Energy. Everybody love me. I don't have one enemy. Our podcast is here now, so you gotta respect that. You never get up on us because we never the exit. If you know me, then you know that I'm more than a savage who loves living life and is allergic to average. So in conclusion, so it's no confusion. If you see somebody believing us, it's an illusion.

SPEAKER_01 0:36

Talk about it.

SPEAKER_00 0:36

What up, do what up? What up, though? I'm the husband.

SPEAKER_01 0:41

I'm the wife.

Part Two And Subscribe Request

Halloween Induction And High Confidence

SPEAKER_00 0:42

And this is marriage materials. Talk about it. All right. As promised, man. We're right back into it. We're gonna do this as part two from last week. So if you missed last week, go back and listen. Go back and listen. And I neglected to say this last week, and I'm gonna say it this week for last week. If you didn't subscribe yet, go subscribe. Oh if you didn't like it, go like it. If you didn't share it, oh share it. Go share it. You know what I'm saying? Let's do it, man. It's that part cost you nothing. Let's go do all three of those to us real quick. All right. So we said we're just gonna give you part two about this situation, and I'm I'm gonna almost start this off by just saying this this is gonna be entitled The Death of KD.

SPEAKER_01 1:27

Shit.

SPEAKER_00 1:27

Talk about it.

SPEAKER_01 1:28

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:30

All right. So in talking about marriage material and talking about just being married or just being with your loved one, period, right? It's just certain things that you just can't really prepare yourself for. One of them is watching your loved one pretty much just pass away right in front of you, become unalived right in front of you. I gotta, I gotta get used to saying that. They say you gotta say that for YouTube purposes, I guess. I don't know. But so here we go. Here's the situation. It was a regular Halloween day. I was gonna say it was the night before Christmas and all of the house. It was a regular Halloween day.

SPEAKER_01 2:13

That yeah, Halloween fell on the weekend. Was it a weekend? It was it was a Friday, it was a Saturday.

SPEAKER_00 2:18

It was a Friday.

SPEAKER_01 2:19

No, it was a Saturday because I worked that Friday, and then we got up that Saturday and went to work because he was born on a Sunday. Let me double check, but I'm pretty sure.

SPEAKER_00 2:27

Double check as I continue. All right, so it was a Halloween day. We were supposed to have a Halloween baby. This was our last child, right? Go in like nothing. I'm like, you know what? We we professionals at this, it should be easy, you know what I'm saying? We got kids galore, it's no problem, right? Not too much. Oh, not too much. Okay, that's what they said. Not too much, babe. Too much. All right, so this was this was a scheduled inducement. For those who don't know what that is, that means that they're gonna sorry, it was a Friday. Okay, it was a Friday. So for those who don't know what that is, that means that they're gonna give you some medication to put you in active labor so that you can go ahead and have this baby. These are my favorite type of labors to be around in pregnancies and all of that. All of them, but the first one was a situation such as this where we didn't really have to worry about you know the water breaking and all that other stuff. It was just the the first one was just like, you know, we didn't really know what to do with that one.

SPEAKER_01 3:30

That's true. So only one came on his own, yeah. And he still to this day marched to the beat his own drum.

Past Births And Why It Felt Easy

SPEAKER_00 3:36

Like I never put that to the two together, but that's what it is. All right, so we get there early morning. I want to say it was like six, six o'clock, six, seven o'clock in the morning. Right. So we thinking, because this is not our first child, it's not our second child, you know, this is our last child. I'm like, sure, we'd probably be done by about three, four o'clock. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01 3:58

First of all, let's back up a little bit, back up just a little bit. So anybody who has children, they tell you each labor gets easier, right? So our first son, my water broke at like, I don't know, probably like six, seven o'clock in the afternoon or in the evening, whatever, right? We get to the hospital, they hook me up to all the machines and stuff, they do their exams, whatever, whatever. So by the time they had everything set up, had me in the room, you know, doing swabs, all the things they do when you come in in active labor. Well, from let me back up a little bit. I was I was 19. So I will say at that time, the hospital where I had my oldest son at, he the only child I had at this hospital, by the way, because they were so rude, you know what I'm saying? They one, my cousin brought me in there, so they assumed that it was no man or no father, which was wrong. DTM was just eating chili fries at the mall.

SPEAKER_00 4:51

Yeah, I had no idea that he came, he did end up coming, yeah. I got that in time too.

SPEAKER_01 4:56

Because our son wasn't even supposed to be here to the end of September, but he decided to come in the middle of August. So, hey, he do a little monkey wrench in our situation, right?

SPEAKER_00 5:05

Right.

SPEAKER_01 5:06

So they like, you sure you didn't pee on yourself? I'm like, I mean, it didn't feel like I peed on myself. Now, mind you, my water broke, I'm young, I don't know. The shit feel gross. So I got I did get in the shower because I don't know, it just was ugly. So I got in the shower, whatever. By the time everything got set up, it probably was I say it was about 10 o'clock at night. My son was born at 12 42. So for my oldest son, I was in quote unquote active labor for about three and a half hours. Right. Second son, now the second son, I got induced. We got there like 11 o'clock, 10, 11 o'clock. By the time the medication started working, whatever, it was about 12:31 o'clock in the afternoon, in the afternoon. So he was born at 4:45 p.m. So I was in labor with him about three, two and a half, three hours, right? Then the third born, same thing, I got induced. I got induced with him in like the afternoon as well. No, his induction took a little longer. So I got induced with him like maybe in the morning, like 10, 11 o'clock in the morning. So, but once the medication started working, once I was in active labor, I was in labor with him maybe two hours. So that's to give you a little backstory of why we thought baby number four was just gonna come out.

SPEAKER_00 6:32

Right.

SPEAKER_01 6:33

Like no assistance needed, right?

SPEAKER_00 6:35

Now, Jay, you say you don't have kids, right? It's isn't it amazing how she can just give you these times and all that other stuff? It took this. I had no, I was there for all of them. I couldn't tell you what time and none of that.

SPEAKER_01 6:50

Oh, just in case the thirdborn is listening, he was born at 12, 12 a.m.

Emergency C-Section And Both Flatline

SPEAKER_00 6:54

See what I'm saying? So, all right, so now let's get to the death of KD. So now it's Halloween. We finna have this fourth baby. This year, it's supposed to be smooth. We here at seven o'clock in the morning. You know, we already got the Halloween outfit for him to put on, very first Halloween. We prepared, we ready.

SPEAKER_01 7:13

Yep.

SPEAKER_00 7:15

Now the day is going. The day is going, and and at this point it's gone, right? We we moving into the next day, and I'm watching the doctor look at her and look at the screen, and he's showing no signs of nervousness, no signs of there's an issue. No, he got his arms folded, he's looking, he's just chilling. He looked at me, say, Yeah, we're gonna go ahead and take him on out. All right, cool.

SPEAKER_01 7:39

That's not what happened.

SPEAKER_00 7:40

Okay, talk about it. Because you I'm I'm talking what the doctor tell you because I'm telling you what he told me.

SPEAKER_01 7:45

No, because remember, I had got to 10 and I was pushing, right?

SPEAKER_00 7:50

And then what happened?

SPEAKER_01 7:51

Then the doctors came in and took me to the mercy room.

SPEAKER_00 7:54

Because you see how you missed all that? Oh because you was pushing. You think you I know you could you do it. Listen, you're a super woman, all right. I give you your credit, super woman, but you just can't be everywhere all the time. You think you are you in our conversation, you in your own conversation, you having the baby, all that you in pain, you you in and out, you finna die. He all this is crazy, right? You but you still listen. So, anyway, the doctor said, Yeah, we're gonna go ahead and take him on out. This is what he's telling me. And I'm thinking, all right, cool. Let's go for it. And then it was like that last little push that made it have to go like right now. So they rush her into this into the the uh OR room area, they're gonna take him out. By the time she gets to the OR, she out. I couldn't even tell you what now. You want to tell this part? Because you might still see yourself from the spirit, might have seen okay. So she gets in, she gets in, and they take the take him out. His name is Taz. They take him out. He's not breathing, he comes out dead, unalive, my bad, my bad YouTube. He comes out unalive. In the whole process of this, KD also has become unalive. So the doctor is working on KD, the rest of the staff is working on Taz, and they're trying to bring him back. They're trying to figure it out. So, this is when we were talking about last episode, or we were talking about the whole DNR situation. So, at a different hospital, had this happened, they wouldn't have been able to do nothing for KD because she had one at that time, right? So the doctor said that it's a certain time that you can work on patients before you have to call it. He said I couldn't stop. So he worked on them a little past the time that they about to call it, just because he said he was too big and I couldn't come out here and tell you that I lost both of them. So we kept working, and simultaneously they both came back at the same time. So I'm like, whatever it takes, but the whole time now, I'm I can't be in there with them because they rushed them in. So I'm standing at the door, just like frozen. I got the staff saying, You can go have a seat, you know, wherever they was pointing at.

SPEAKER_01 10:11

So the operating waiting room.

DNR Reality And Doctor’s Choice

SPEAKER_00 10:13

I got my my BFF was like, I think y'all just better leave him alone. Because my face was like, the next person that comes in reaching distance is gonna be next to them. So I think y'all should leave him alone. That's what my face was saying. Pardon me. So when they bring him back, now this is another and sickness part of life, you know. And we married, you know, we've been through a bunch of a bunch of stuff. So I told y'all last episode what that situation made me realize. Like, you know what? I won't, I want to keep this situation. Made me realize I ain't ready to live without her. I ain't ready to do it. You know what I'm saying? And it also made me like revisit my whole life of decision makings and things of that nature. Like, nah, we gotta make this, we gotta make this right, you know what I'm saying? We gotta get to that next level of life and next level of living and next level of marriage and everything. So it made me really assess like the things that I was doing in life and how to be a better husband and how to be a better friend and how to be a better all-around human, you know what I'm saying? So just for that little time frame of not having y'all here, not having you here. I didn't even know him yet. I ain't know cuz yet, for real. You know what I'm saying? So I was I wasn't really feeling too much like that, but I was feeling something. I was I was feeling something, I wasn't feeling too much, but I was feeling something because I was like, I don't know cuz like that, but I want to know it, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01 11:46

So something is wrong with you.

Aftermath And Marriage Perspective Shift

The Baby Transfer And Leading Alone

SPEAKER_00 11:50

So they they bring her back, they bring her in the room, they're telling us everything that's going on, and something that was supposed to be so simple, so smooth, such an easy transition turned into like the moment of just horror, right? Oh, for real. But I like I said, I try to find a learning point in every situation. And the learning point that I found in this one was to always be just cool, don't don't look nervous. Because I feel like when you look nervous, you start to do nervous stuff, yeah. You know what I'm saying? Don't don't look scared when you look scared, you start to do it in a scared way. Yeah, like he just had such a level of confidence on him, not knowing what he was about to enter into or what was gonna happen on the other side of the thing. So for him to have that level, I was like, okay, you know what? I'm about to adopt that. You know what I'm saying? I don't know if I had it before at a at a low level or whatever, but I was way more intentional about that part, you know what I mean. What did this moment do for you, like about our relationship? Was it the same as the first one, first story we were talking about last week? Or did it did it enhance it anymore? Because for me, like I said, it made me realize how much I needed you in my life at this time, right? And I was like, I'm not ready to, you know, or anybody else that's that's involved. That y'all just stupid. This is this is where I need to be. This is that, right? Make some changes, young man. You know what I'm saying? Be the be the man that you was groomed to be, you know. So that was really a big moment in my life where I was able to sit back almost, almost like an out-of-body experience. Because I feel like I was watching myself out of my body, literally. You know what I'm saying? And we probably missed out on a lawsuit. So that's that's neither here nor there. But go ahead. Did it make do you remember anything differently about that day? Because we didn't even get to the part where they they put my baby on the helicopter, and I had to follow them from where we were miles and miles away, and now I gotta go back and forth because he's at one hospital, she was at another hospital. But these are the things that you have to do as the leader, as the husband, as the man in the house to let people know. Listen, I'm here. We're finna make this happen. We're gonna make it happen. And Katie, you know, she two pocked herself, checked herself out of the hospital sooner than she was supposed to, so she can get over there. But this was a very, extremely trying time, but it was a very extremely extreme eye-opener for me for so many different reasons, even four things that we went through after that, you know what I'm saying, that we had to deal with that didn't turn out the way that this one did. You know what I mean? But it did help me build strength in a lot of different ways. What do you remember? Do you remember anything different different about that? Or what what lesson did you learn from that situation?

SPEAKER_01 14:45

Don't have no more babies, definitely lesson number one. We hey, hey, let's get some shit fixed around here.

SPEAKER_00 14:53

No baby, no baby, no baby, no baby, no baby.

SPEAKER_01 14:56

You won't get a daughter out of me, buddy.

SPEAKER_00 14:59

I got I got a bunch of them over there, though.

SPEAKER_01 15:00

Well, now you got daughters, got granddaughters, all types of stuff. But I mean, it did show me like it showed me a lot about knowing like that you got people that you can lean on, right? That you don't have to do it all by yourself. Yeah, I remember one particular time you had left to go check on Tass and the the MA or whatever. I don't I don't know what the lady, the lady to come take your vitals. The vital lady, she came in and she was like, Where your baby at?

SPEAKER_00 15:33

What?

SPEAKER_01 15:34

So I said he he not here. I know I said he's not he at another hospital. Why? Like, what? So I mean, of course I started crying because you guys realize one, I just have I I seen him, like I seen videos that I seen him before he got on a helicopter, but because I was so medicated, I didn't remember seeing him. So even like FaceTiming him and stuff, like for for quite a couple days. So I had him Saturday morning, I ended up leaving the hospital Monday, but Sunday I was like out of it because I was so medicated. So like going into Sunday, Monday, when she was asking me where my baby was at, I started crying, and while I was crying, she took my blood pressure.

SPEAKER_00 16:25

That's a that's a good point that you made too. Because I feel like this time also taught me about you know that you got a village.

Cool Pad Treatment And Defying Odds

SPEAKER_01 16:34

Yeah, that's all I was saying. Like it taught me that we had a village because when she took my blood pressure, she then made the comment, you ain't never gonna see a baby with a blood pressure this high. So in the room, my best friend went off on her. Bad my mom and my sister left out the room to go find a charge nurse to say, hey yo, get this out of here, and don't she can't come back in here. I don't know why she ain't read the chart. I ain't I don't know why she ain't read the room.

SPEAKER_00 17:07

Right.

SPEAKER_01 17:07

Because my thing is there's no baby in here, there's not even a baby, like the you know, the little I was about to say tray. Lord have mercy. The little bed they had a baby, it's nothing in this room.

SPEAKER_00 17:22

Yeah, it's a bit it's a baby lunch tray.

SPEAKER_01 17:25

But it's nothing in this room that says baby, right? So why are you even asking about them? For one, I feel like that was insensitive because one, I didn't even know what was going on with my baby, right? Right, but what if things was different? And you just in this, you just in here keep asking about him. I'm telling you that he's not here. And you still ask, and they're gonna take my blood pressure. Bitches, you cool?

SPEAKER_00 17:50

Yeah, they she she probably cheated her way through school. That's what that was.

SPEAKER_01 17:54

So they did end up putting a sign outside my door. Basically, it's like a universal sign in the hospital that when you're not supposed to ask about the baby, so it's like a teddy bear with uh with an X through the belly, right? So they put that on the outside of my door. So moving forward, nobody else asked about them, which she the only dummy that asked about them anyway. The crazy did it to be, you know, just to be proactive, and then they did advise her not to come back in the room.

SPEAKER_00 18:23

And I told I'm all the way, I want to say it was at least 28 miles away from where KD was at the time, because I'm with I'm with Taz. And I'm hearing a story, or it's not even a story at the time, but with the actual situation.

Insensitive Hospital Moment And The Village

SPEAKER_01 18:37

Well, you called me, yeah, and you was like, What you crying for? And I was telling you, and you was like, What? I'm on my way. I was like, No, you don't gotta be on your way, they already took care of it.

SPEAKER_00 18:47

So, yeah, and that to hear they already took care of it for me was like, Oh, okay, I like that, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, because I've always been the one that was like, Okay, now I'm trying to be in two places at one time, and it's literally impossible for me to be in two places at one time. So tasked so Katie signed herself out the hospital so she can, you know, come.

SPEAKER_01 19:15

I asked, could I leave?

SPEAKER_00 19:16

Yeah, she asked without giving them the option of saying no. So she picked up a lot of DTM's movements because he just told me Pinky swear that I would get in a wheelchair.

SPEAKER_01 19:26

Yeah, he knew I was leaving, he saw it all in my face. He like, you're not staying right. I'm like, no. So either you let me go so that I can leave with the proper medication, or I could just leave and we'll see what happened.

SPEAKER_00 19:37

Right. So we get over there now. Mind you, this this hospital that Tass is in. It's it's it's an amazing hospital. I'm gonna actually get him some love. Let's say it's U of M, uh Mott's Mott's, yeah. Yeah, Mott's U of M. They actually had a program at the time that Taz was like one of the first babies to try this program out and it worked, right? So it's called the cool pad. For those who don't know, the cool pad means that they're gonna lay this baby on this pad and it's like a slab of ice. Yeah, it's like a it's inside, they incubated on a cold pad, and it's taking the body temperature back down to zero, and then they're gonna gradually bring the temperature up so that they can kickstart all the organs to make them work correctly, just so they because they went so long without oxygen. And it definitely worked, but they was telling us your baby's probably never gonna cry, he's probably never gonna suck a pacifier, he's never gonna drink right, he's never gonna do this, he's never gonna do that, right? So the crazy thing was literally, as soon as they say he's never gonna do whatever it was, he's never gonna do, within hours he would do it. And I was like, Oh, you say he wasn't gonna cry, this nigga won't stop crying.

SPEAKER_01 20:48

Still like, oh, you say to the day still to this day, still he's 11 and still cry to the day, all right, all the time.

SPEAKER_00 20:55

They like oh, he's never gonna really suck a pacifier or drink regular, killing it. He was on point with it. And I was like, Oh, he defined all these odds. We're killing it, we good. We was in there for seven days and we got out.

SPEAKER_01 21:07

And we was in there a little longer than seven days, but just a little longer. We weren't in there as long as they predicted because they predicted like 12 weeks.

SPEAKER_00 21:16

How long, how long was it?

SPEAKER_01 21:18

Like nine days.

SPEAKER_00 21:19

I said a little longer, it wasn't like my recollection say seven, but we're gonna go with nine.

SPEAKER_01 21:25

We'll go with you.

SPEAKER_00 21:26

Hey, I like seven better because it's it's a day of beginning. We good, okay.

SPEAKER_01 21:29

All right, it's seven days, right?

Names, Lessons, And Closing Plugs

SPEAKER_00 21:31

Yeah, but we go home, everything's good. But this was the time, again, when the relationship was tried in a way where you know, you was able to actually see what you love the most be taken away. You know what I'm saying? And then giving back. Like, I just wanted you to know I could take her at any time. And I was like, yo, cuz. You're supposed to be my man. Don't do me like that. I'm riding for you, bro. Come on, man. I'm riding for you. You sound special. So, but yeah, no, I felt like you know, those type of situations, man, it just it changes the relationship almost forever. And so many different ways. You know what I'm saying? And I guess I gotta apologize. I ain't really never given you no health issues like that for you to be able to tell your stories on a pod like that.

SPEAKER_01 22:31

Yeah, that's why you like health. I'm like, oh, so we just gonna talk about me, huh?

SPEAKER_00 22:34

No, but no, I asked you anything.

SPEAKER_01 22:36

But I'm just saying, but when you say you were gonna talk about health, that yeah, you ain't never been sick.

SPEAKER_00 22:40

I mean, I had a cold or something, but that ain't nothing. I got gout.

SPEAKER_01 22:44

I mean, I nah, it ain't nothing, but I got gout. That's the only time we had to go ever had to go to the hospital when we ain't know what's going on with your foot and found out you had gout, and then I just burst out crying. I was like, No, that gout, what is that? You did not. What did it do? You did not bust out.

SPEAKER_00 22:58

Oh, what'd I do?

SPEAKER_01 22:59

Nothing.

SPEAKER_00 23:00

Oh, all right.

SPEAKER_01 23:01

You say I'm too young for that, ain't I? They was like, Yeah, you are kind of young, but you got it.

SPEAKER_00 23:05

I'm like, how you give it back?

SPEAKER_01 23:07

Hey, like you drink a lot of beer. He was like, I don't even drink.

SPEAKER_00 23:11

I don't drink beer.

SPEAKER_01 23:12

We was like 22, 23, nobody drinking beer. That's an old man drink.

SPEAKER_00 23:17

All right, what's the what the what the baby say?

SPEAKER_01 23:19

Yeah, yuck, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 23:21

No, I can't deal with that.

SPEAKER_01 23:22

That I still was not no baby, that was a grown woman.

SPEAKER_00 23:25

Yes, googly movie. Um, but yeah, so the death of KD, man.

SPEAKER_01 23:32

Just to watch can we call it something?

SPEAKER_00 23:34

Why were we gonna call it?

SPEAKER_01 23:34

I don't know. That's insane.

SPEAKER_00 23:36

That's that's fire, though. I mean, because it's what happened. I mean, yeah, it's what happened. I had another family member that that had a experience like this too. Did you see what they saw or no?

SPEAKER_01 23:46

I don't recall, I don't think so. I feel like I would have remembered that.

SPEAKER_00 23:51

Okay, had a conversation with like Tupac and Big and all of them. Y'all was in the cipher together. Like, what was going on? What in the world made you think you can just die on me? Me, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 24:02

No, I didn't do that on purpose.

SPEAKER_00 24:03

Oh, okay. Don't be don't don't try to unalive yourself on me.

SPEAKER_01 24:06

No, no, no, no. I didn't do that to myself. Don't say that.

SPEAKER_00 24:08

Oh, I'm just saying. Man, your son did that.

SPEAKER_01 24:13

He caught his first body before he was even born. Crazy work, shy of turkey.

SPEAKER_00 24:18

Man, yeah, that was heavy. That was definitely heavy, a heavy situation.

SPEAKER_01 24:24

I think one of the scariest parts was this it's funny now, it wasn't funny then. But DTM and our BFF went down to the area where Taz was at just to make sure you know he had all 10 toes, 10 fingers, you know, making sure shit was good, right? So they left me in a room with my our brother.

SPEAKER_00 24:47

Y'all heard him on the show before.

SPEAKER_01 24:48

Oh, yeah, he was on the other show, he was on relationship reality. Shout out to Nar. So I'm shaking so bad. I'm like, something is wrong. And I it I was cold. I was I was cold. Imagine standing outside in like sub-zero temperatures with naked, with no clothes or nothing on. That's how cold I was. Like I was cold down to like it felt like my blood was cold, right? And I'm just shaking, shaking. I'm like, something. I'm like, I asked the nurse, I said, Can I have a another blanket? So she was like, she was like, Yeah. So then I started crying because then I was scared because I didn't know what was going on. Now, mind you, I've never had any surgery before. So having a c-section was the something I've never experienced. I mean, of course I've never had a c-section because all my other children were born vaginally, but I've never had any kind of surgery, so that was scary. And then I didn't I didn't know what was going on with my baby. Nobody would tell me where he was at. So now I'm like, is he okay? Is he here? You know, then you and Kiki had left the room, so I'm like, damn, I'm just I'm just in this bitch dolo with this bro.

SPEAKER_00 25:56

It's buster.

SPEAKER_01 25:58

So I started crying, just he just reached over, woo woo woo, and he just started like rubbing my shoulder, but like a tapping rub. Like you could tell he was so uncomfortable. Yeah, so he he did ask, he said, is she okay? She don't seem like herself. The lady just nonchalantly said, Oh, that's what happened when you have to use the paddles on the patient. We like, huh? She likes, oh, the doctor didn't tell you. Oh, he'll come talk to you. But she just said it so flippant, like, today's Tuesday, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00 26:35

You can say it when it you can say it when it turned out right.

SPEAKER_01 26:38

But I'm just but we didn't even know none of that happen happened because remember, the doctor hadn't even came and talked to us yet, right? So we didn't know what happened. She just like meh. Then she gave me a little heated blanket and went on about her day. I said, What in the hell? This dog picked the phone up, like, hey, can I switch places with one of y'all? I need one of y'all to come up here. So then him and BFF switched. She came up to the room and then he went downstairs because or upstairs, wherever. I don't know. I don't remember, but no, yeah, he was he was super, super uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_00 27:10

Yeah, that was uh that was that was definitely crazy. Then he jumped in that helicopter. I was like, Can I ride with him? Yeah, I was like, Well, no, if I ride with him, I ain't gonna be able to come back and forth my car here. I'm like, so I'm gonna follow. So I followed for I probably had him in my sight for maybe 10 minutes.

SPEAKER_01 27:29

No, less than that, because it's it was a nine-minute flight, remember?

SPEAKER_00 27:32

Yeah, no, I mean, as far as like I could see, oh okay, not not like I'm up under him because I wasn't up under. I was I just I was just able to see you, you know.

SPEAKER_01 27:41

It was like, yeah, it's like a nine-minute flight. So we'll be there, have them checked in everything within 30 minutes.

SPEAKER_00 27:46

I was like, damn, yeah, they were definitely on point, man. I was like, I'm like, man, that's what it means to be married. Yeah, kids. If you get married, why don't you have kids? Why don't that's what they said? But I'm like, yeah, nah. But again, you you you learn a lot, man, in these type types of situations. But I've seen couples that I've dealt with that started to dislike their partner more because of the amount of times they were getting sick and things of that nature. But for us, I feel like it's it's brought us closer together, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So I'm I'm guessing it was needed in some way, shape, or form. You know what I mean? And it brought us to all the other times we had to go do some some some hospital work, you know. You know, even as of recent, we'll get to that later down the line, but even as of recent, maybe the other show we'll talk about.

SPEAKER_01 28:46

That was my last time being in the hospital, though.

SPEAKER_00 28:49

Yeah, yeah. I mean, that was a lifetime work.

SPEAKER_01 28:53

That's true.

SPEAKER_00 28:54

No, I don't think you deserve any other more times after that. Like, like you're good, you're good. No, she's banned.

SPEAKER_01 29:02

Damn.

SPEAKER_00 29:03

What uh what T Grease say, ban me from every Jewish though?

SPEAKER_01 29:07

Damn, yeah, Kentucky, ban me from every Jewish though. Yeah, I can't even go in public with my hoodie on.

SPEAKER_00 29:13

Nah, sorry. I knew that was gonna get you going. I already know. So, yeah, no, that was definitely a situation right there, man. And I was like, But it made you it made me not only just respect our bond, but even the bond that we had with our friend. Because I was like, Y'all, yeah, it was really there.

SPEAKER_01 29:36

Yeah, they held it down. They was helping with the other boys because mind you, we still got three kids at home, right? So they was helping my mom out with the kids, and then at that time, my little sister also was having a baby because our kids are only 11 days apart, so 12 days. Sorry, his his on the first her on the 13th, but it was like everybody has something going on, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah, they for sure held it down.

SPEAKER_00 30:01

So I guess we uh we we said it that's kind of how he got his name, by the way, Taz.

SPEAKER_01 30:06

Yeah, from conception, from conception that baby gave me pregnant. Like a whirlwind, yeah, no, for real people like, why he get his name? How long you got?

SPEAKER_00 30:18

How much time you got?

SPEAKER_01 30:19

I'm talking about from the time I found out I was pregnant. That boy gave me hell. Remember, I got took off work for like four weeks because whatever test came back positive, they thought he was first of all. He kept trying to come early.

SPEAKER_00 30:32

They thought he was what, baby?

SPEAKER_01 30:34

Don't come early.

SPEAKER_00 30:35

Oh yeah, no, go ahead.

SPEAKER_01 30:37

No, they thought he was gonna come early because they did the swab, and it was like something came back positive, so they thought he was gonna come early in like September. No, because he came in October, he was well, he came in November, but they thought he was gonna come like end of September, beginning October, but he didn't come. I went into premature labor at his goddad's birthday dinner. We had to go to the hospital.

SPEAKER_00 31:01

Was he the one? He was the one that your brother made you cry about, wasn't it?

SPEAKER_01 31:07

No, okay. That was DJ.

SPEAKER_00 31:09

DJ, oh okay, yeah. All right, all right. Well, jerk, yo junior, yeah. The probably the the most laid back one we had.

SPEAKER_01 31:22

Yeah, for real. Dog so chill. We gotta get him on the show one day, but he's so chill, y'all. Like, even when he rap, he just yeah, my oldest son, he about the that that second boy, he just mild.

SPEAKER_00 31:37

Just so laid back. All right, so give it to him, baby.

SPEAKER_01 31:44

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SPEAKER_00 32:01

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SPEAKER_01 32:08

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SPEAKER_00 32:13

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SPEAKER_01 32:26

In closing.

SPEAKER_00 32:28

In closing. I do is a moment. I did is the work. I'm done as a decision. Don't get them twisted. This is marriage material. It's your boy Coach DTM.

SPEAKER_01 32:42

Your girl Katie.

SPEAKER_00 32:43

And we will see you next week.

SPEAKER_01 32:45

Peace.